Preparing for

I started off my doula'ing career helping mums and families in the home once baby had arrived. We worked through situations and issues as they arose. Working reactively whilst also day to day of baby, mum and the rest of the family.  

Having worked with countless families I began to realise where families were having challenges, when they thrived, when they didn't know to expect a certain thing, or had a huge mental load. 

Having been fortunate enough to be in the homes of these families, I can say with certainty there are things you can do to
Prepare for Postnatal life. 

"So focussed on the birth I didn't realise what was in store for me postnatally"

"Why don't they do more emotional and mental health work in Antenatal classes"

" I want to get as ready as I can now I'll have two kids"

Getting your ducks in a row - practically and emotionally - will be a


What did Becca say about
her session...

"April made us think about things we hadn't really considered & think about things in more depth. Thinking about how we want our experience to be rather than thinking about how it 'should' be.


Realising how things will work for us & our lifestyle. Knowing that everyone has different ideas about how to handle such a life-changing event & that it's ok to do things exactly how we want rather than how someone else thinks we should".


Becci Herat, Surrey

What are the reasons women (and men) feel unprepared for parenthood? 

Unresolved trauma. 







Day-to-day care of a baby and perceived abilities. 

Intrusive thoughts. 

Mental lead. 

General family life. 

**This isn't me guessing what mums and dads feel, this is taken from various research studies**

What will the session do for you? 

>> Prepared maternal goddess going into motherhood - doing everything you can this side of your baby arriving and not leaving it until you are literally holding the baby! 

>> Your emotional self will be thanking you for it - go into motherhood feeling positive - you will be reducing your mental load going into those early weeks  

>> You will go from confused to confident! 

>> Knowing where to put your focus and not a let's-do-it-all approach. 

>> Have a much clearer idea of what to expect and the things that are likely to show up for you as a new mum

>> More time to enjoy the early weeks and celebrate all your wins!

"Becoming a mother makes you realise you can do almost everything one-handed!"

The Session itself...

...will be upto two hours over Zoom.  


>> Pre-part - you will be sent a form (to make the most of our session) and your Preparation planner

During the session:


1/ We will talk through background, current situation, areas of help (using the form) and where you would like to get to in early motherhood - what would be a confident place for you...


2/ I will guide you through my bespoke 6-step preparation process - you can use your planner to make notes for each section

3/ Q&A session at the end - ask all the questions or queries you have about moving into motherhood

>> Post-part - you will be sent an email with any additional notes/actions/resource links plus the recording of the session.

The price is £99

Ready to

Choose your date and time here. 

>> A form and planner will be sent before your session <<